‘I cannot date man with kids because I have five already’ SA lady says in viral video
A South African single mother of five has gone viral after posting a video listing the requirements her potential suitor must possess to approach her.
Number one consideration is that the man must have no kids because her hands are already full with five children of her own.
She says dating a man who already has two kids means she will have to be responsible for seven kids, adding that she is too young to handle that.
She is heard saying in the video: “I cannot date a guy that already has kids because I have five kids. Imagine if you’re coming with your kids into the relationship—I have five, you have two—now I have to be a mother of seven kids.”
“There’s no way; I can’t be a mother of seven kids. I’m very young to handle that.”
“I’m better off with my five kids. If a guy comes to date me, he has to have no kids and must be ready to be a stepdad to my kids. I want a present father. If you’re going to date me, you’re going to date me with my kids. It’s a must—you have to take care of us financially, provide for my kids and me. I am not working.”
“We come as a package deal. I don’t want your kids. I don’t have to date a guy that has kids because I already have my own.”
“If you’re interested as a guy, hit my inbox and be ready to be a stepfather.”
Many have blasted her as unrealistic and unreasonable, while some argue that she is entitled to her preferences in as much as some men roll out similar rules in their courtships.
See some comments below:
kefas Dube: “5kids already is more than a red flag but a red carpet 😂😂😂😂😂😂.”
stufuzaesihle❤️: “I see no problem here, she has her preferences. Same as a guy who doesn’t want a women without kids whereas he has kids. There are men who think this exact way… Baningi futhi.”
peaceness4: “I’m very young to be a mother of seven kids🤣🤣🤣🤣.”
HBee: “The only part I’m struggling to comprehend is when she says, “we come as a bargain”.”
Dee: “This made me to take a celibacy decision for 2025 thank u sis.”
anonymous: “There are men who think like this too but want to judge her. It’s her preference too🌚👍.”
Prince Major: “Okay I understand is her preferences, but why must I be a present father if I dont have kids😂😂.”
Thula Mkhize: “This is just sad and funny at the same time 😂🥺 She wants to receive, and not give… It’s a “bargain” indeed 😂🤣.”
Watch her video here
