A mother-of-two, Chizoba Ibebuike Okeke, has shared how much she h@tes s£x when she’s pregnant and how far she goes to avoid it despite her husband’s pleas for it.
She made the disclosures of all her strategies on Facebook, leading to some of her friends and readers accusing her of disclosing too much information (TMI) on her family.
According to her one of the things she did was to lock herself in her room one day to avoid intimacy with her husband.
She recounted that the man promptly broke the lock with a hammer making it impossible to lock the door against him.
Chizoba went as far as sleeping with a knife under her pillow to keep her husband away.
She also said she started keeping her son around her always to discourage her husband from attempting intimacy.
Chizoba said her husband would chase her around their house, begging her to give in to him.
Read her post below.
“Am I the only woman who avoids ikwokirikwo during pregnancy? The way I avoids sex during pregnancy eh, u will think I had my children through immaculate conception.😁
When I was pregnant with my son, I stopped coitus at almost 2 months pregnancy.
My daughter’s own was at 3 months that I stopped it with my husband.. Exactly 18th of October 2023 while I gave birth to my daughter in April 2024..Do the math..
I was able to remember the date bcos of what transpired between my husband and I that night.
.I resisted him with all my strength..Dude practically chased me all over the house, knelt down and begged me..At a point he promised to buy Private Jet for me if I should let him “Pour” inside…I refused.. For over 4hrs he was begging..He couldn’t let me sleep and I was already tired of resisting him..So I gave in..
That was the day he told himself he won’t bother me again and I had my peace..
Prior to that night,we have had bouts of fights for kpekus..I locked my door,Oga used hammer to break down my metal door.. I couldn’t lock it again so I started keeping knife under my pillow Incase Onye oshi otu sneaks in to disturb me..😁
There was a day he stylishly sent my son on errand and immediately my son left the house,son of man carry prick dey pursue me all over the house..I no gree..He nearly tear my cloth..I started screaming my son’s name for him to come back..As soon as he comes back,Oga ran inside his room and left me alone..
My son saved me from prick that day..😁
I tarted moving around the house with my son in tow..Kitchen,my matrimonial room,balcony,parlour,I didn’t give the man a chance to “Pour”..🤣🤣Muna became my bodyguard..🤣🤣
I remember the day he came back early so that he will “Pour” before my son will come back from school.. I told him to go and bath first bcos once I become pregnant,everybody will start smelling anyhow to me..I stopped sleeping in my matrimonial room bcos I don’t like how it was smelling then..I slept in my personal room all through..Infact the sight of my hubby irritated me..If I see him,e be like I see ekwensu..
So I told him to go and bath..After bathing,he came to me and started smelling funny again,I told him to repeat the bath..After the second bath I still told him to go and bath again..By the time he was through with the 3rd one,my son was already back…Oga carry konji sleep that night..🤣🤣
It was war..I despised sex..If I see prick,e be like I see snake..It makes me to throw up..I cringe at my husband’s touch..Gosh..Kissing nko? He dare not bring his mouth close to mine..🤣🤣
The day my husband stopped disturbing me was my happiest day..I carried my pregnancy till 9 months no sex till I born…
This is why I told him I don’t want to get pregnant again..bcos if I attempt another pregnancy,I will need to travel far away from him to carry my pregnancy in peace till I give birth..
My own is,GET ME PREGNANT,LEAVE ME ALONE!! Is that too hard??
Gloria Nnenna Okechukwu: “What does social media need this information for?
No decency and respect for marriage again.
If you have value for your marriage, you will delete this post.
It is unnecessary and embarrassing.”
Mr Man: “Madam you don’t love your husband. You are probably married to him coz of other reasons than love.
You can’t strongly have affections and love for someone and get irritated when they touch or kiss you simply because you are pregnant for 9 months.
Meanwhile, you are very shameless and at the same time stupid to come online to share this rubbish as a content.”
Amara Nancy: “Did you think before writing this here?”
Rufus Isaac Rio: “This post alone can cause her to lose her home because she’s too detailed about it and may not go well with the husband.
In my opinion, you should’ve made it used of a XYZ instead of making it direct.
I want to believe that your husband is a good man and respects you a lot, for that you shouldn’t have uploaded his pix.”
Ugochi Debby: “What I understand is get you pregnant leave you alone and find side chick 🤔🤔, make una think twice,he must not sleep with you to satisfy his urge, you can ruburubu his odogwu till he cum,no chase your man out, not impressed with ya story”
