On-Air personality, Toke Makinwa has said that cheating is no longer a big deal for her as it was in her younger years.
In a podcast released on Thursday, Toke Makinwa, who accused her ex-husband, Maje Ayida of being a serial cheat, said her perspective on cheating had changed over the years.
Makinwa said with age, she had come to realize that women might find it easier to cheat, and the primary reason some refrained was due to self-restraint.
She said:
“I think a lot of women need to reject the stigma. If I cheat, it’s okay for the man to do the same to me.
“I feel like I have gotten to a place in my life where you can’t shame the shameless. If I cheat tomorrow and you want to leave I will respect you. If you want to stay, don’t use it to taunt me because I have won the crown of a cheater.
“If I’m going to be very honest, cheating is no longer a deal breaker for me. It used to be; when I was younger, I would never have been able to say these. I would have said if he cheats, I’m putting him back in the street.
“As I grew older, I realized men cheat, women cheat. It’s easier for a woman to cheat, it’s self-restraint that stops us. The reason why I’m not quick to put you out is I might be the first person to cheat on you. Forgive me as I have forgiven you.”
