A 47-year-old pastor from Glenvista in Johannesburg, South Africa has cried out for help as he can no longer perform conjugal duties at home following a break up with a side chick.
The Pastor told Daily Sun that the side chick was expecting him to break up with his wife and marry her but was disappointed when he broke up with her in March.
According to him, the spark was gone from the relationship[. The cleric said he raised the issue with her, but she gave him an attitude and said she did not have a reason to respect an unfaithful man.
The Pastor said: “Sometimes when I asked to see her, she’d tell me she’s with another man.
“I realised this one was trouble so I ended the relationship. That didn’t go well.
“She told me I’ll regret the day I met her and she’d destroy my marriage in any way she could.”
He further revealed that he noticed that he had become impotent after trying to have sex with his wife in April. It continued even after he visited a urologist who gave him some pills and advised him to eat healthy.
The Pastor said: “Last month, I tried again but the same thing happened. My heart dropped as my 4-5 hanged its head.
“I really regret what I did to my wife. I want my life back
“When I asked her what she did, she told me I messed with the wrong woman and ended the call.”
He said when he tried calling her back, she didn’t answer. Asked if he’s visited a sangoma (native doctor), he said he was a man of God and did not believe in those practices.
“I know the nyatsi has something to do with this, but I don’t think I want to take that route to fix my problem.”
Speaking to Daily Sun, the 28-year-old side chick told Daily Sun she assumed the pastor dated her because he loved her and planned to divorce his wife.
Asked if she indeed locked his penis, she reportedly laughed and then said he will learn to stop toying with women’s feelings before ending the call.
She said: “He’s a man of God and I didn’t think he was just using me for a poke. I thought what we had was real.”
However a urologist, Dr Kenneth Mulongo said most of these cases are caused by a combination of physical and emotional problems. He advised the pastor to come see him.
Mulongo said: “Just about any medical condition that affects your nerves or blood vessels could hurt your ability to have an erection.”
A native doctor, Joseph Dungamanzi confirmed the man’s penis was locked and also said nothing would work until he went for cleansing.
