‘My wife snubbed her pastor’, says man who married in June and caught his wife cheating in August

The Nigerian man, Osayande Raphael Osaretin, who accused his wife of cheating two months into their marriage, has explained that he turned to social media after other measures failed.

In a post on his Facebook page, Osaretin claimed that he had explored every other avenue of resolving the crisis amicably, but they all failed.

It would be recalled that Osaretin took to social media in August to accuse his wife, Naomi Osuji, of sleeping with a married man just two months into their marriage.

The exposure reverberated across social media, with many blaming the man for not exploring other means of resolution rather than globally shaming his wife.

But in a series of posts, the aggrieved husband is defending his actions.

According to him, he involved his wife’s family, but they were not able to make any meaningful impact.

He said his wife continued to deny the affair and carried on as if nothing had happened.

Osaretin said he also informed Naomi’s pastor, and he scheduled a counselling session for them. The aggrieved husband claimed that Naomi refused to honour the invitation.

He said he even suggested that they should end the marriage amicably, but Naomi refused.

Osaretin accused Naomi of playing mind games with him, and he realised that she had a plan with her concubine. He accused her of protecting the image of the concubine so he could relocate her abroad.

The angry husband said he also realised he had been blind all along because there were signs he should have paid attention to.

The distraught man said he objected to the Toyota Camry 2004 model that the concubine gave to his wife, and he asked her to return it.

He claimed that his wife refused and convinced him that the man was an old friend who was no longer living in Nigeria.

Osaretin said he was to later discover that this was not entirely true, because the man in question, though based abroad, was always shuttling between his base and Nigeria.

The aggrieved man argued that if his wife did not want disgrace, she would have allowed amicable resolution of the issue.

He regretted getting into the mess and blamed Naomi for getting involved with him when she knew she still loved the married man.

Osareting called on single men to learn from his own sad experience.